I Get it from my Daddy

Anyone who ever meet James Alonzo McNeill would probably describe him as a kind person, eager to help others and committed to taking care of his family and friends. They would comment on his musical talent playing gospel music on the lead guitar in a blues-like fashion and singing in a similar raspy tone. They would tell stories of his gift of gab, his great sense of humor and his wonderful way of putting people at ease. They would share numerous examples of his hard work in various occupations over his lifetime. They would comment about his strength of character in the face of hardship that was prevalent among black men living in the south during an era prone to civil injustice. All of these descriptors accurately portray my Dad. As most of us age, we begin to see a reflection of our parents when we begin to assess who we are as people. We find ourselves sounding like our parents when we share our wisdom and views on life lessons. We will see ourselves displaying certain mannerisms that closely resemble those of the patriarchs and matriarchs of our lineage. In these times of self-reflection, it is important to nurture the good character traits that have been passed on to us. We do this by continuously seeking self improvement and taking responsibility for the decisions that we make. My Dad taught me to dream big, work hard and stay true to who God called me to be. Although most people would not describe me as an overly emotional individual or a person who wears their heart on their sleeve, they would agree that my outlook on life is one of great expectations from dedicated service and commitment. So if there is ever a question about why I am the way that I am, just know that I get it from my Daddy.